Jesus was SMART!
So it's natural for us to hate men. Not only is it natural, Jesus tells us it's going to happen. Sometimes I wish Paul would shut up! But every Sunday and Wednesday I hear about Paul's rules. Stupid Timothy couldn't live closer, could he? Had to get his stupid letters! UGH!
So it's a rock and a hard place. I choose to interpret the words of Jesus as meaning it's ok to hate the men because He knows we love Him and He doesn't want us to put the blame for Paul on Him. In the long run it only matters that we love Jesus as He is our true Master.
He's the only man I trust.